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As the calendar flips its pages towards Valentine’s Day, our minds naturally gravitate towards the real MVPs in our lives – those robust, thriving relationships that form the backbone of our existence.

Beyond the flowers and chocolates, let’s acknowledge that mastering the complex art of relationships is not a one-day magic trick. It’s more like a daily workout for your heart and mind. It demands your attention, it craves your effort, and it insists on a daily dose of willingness to learn.

So today, I’m excited to share with you six must-read relationship books that will transform the way you love and connect with your partner. Think of these books as the heavyweights in your relationship gym, each one designed to strengthen your love muscles.

Let’s jump in.

1. Eight Dates by John Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, Doug Abrams & Rachel Abrams 

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John Gottman and his wife, Julie, are the relationship gurus we all wish we had on speed dial. All their books are powerful, but Eight Dates is a playbook every couple needs. Here, Gottmans guide you through eight must-have dates for a successful, long-lasting relationship. These dates aren’t just Netflix and chill; they’re like pit stops that ensure your relationship engine runs smoothly. From discussing dreams to tackling conflicts, consider these dates your secret sauce for your “happily ever after”.

2. The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman

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Gary Chapman’s classic introduces the idea of love languages, your unique ways of expressing and receiving love. It’s the Rosetta Stone for love – once you speak your partner’s love language, you’re on the fast track to building a more profound and longer-lasting bond.

3. Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg 

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Effective communication is the glue that holds any relationship together. Nonviolent Communication is your guide to expressing yourself without starting a verbal battlefield. Here, Marshall Rosenberg teaches you to communicate authentically with honesty and empathy, fostering a deeper understanding and connection between you and your significant other. This book is one of my all-time favourites.

4. Happy Together by Suzann Pileggi Pawelski and James Pawelski

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This book is about applying positive psychology to make your relationship not just survive but thrive. Grounded in research, ancient wisdom, and real-life examples, Suzie and James encourage finding the good in yourself and your partner. They also teach you how to build love habits to master the complex art of relationships.

5. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families by  Stephen R. Covey

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Covey’s timeless principles may not be solely about romantic relationships, but they sure do work wonders in family life – yes, that includes couples. In this book, he shows how the seven habits of highly effective people can transform your marriage and contribute to a more effective and fulfilling family life.

6. The Secrets of Happy Families by Bruce Feiler

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Bruce Feiler is your modern family expert, offering a fresh take on family dynamics. He’s collected tips from science, business, sports, and even the military to create a happy family handbook. His innovative approach and ideas have the power to turn your family into a happiness hub.

The Bottom Line

So, there you have it –six books that can work wonders for your relationship.

But here’s the thing: don’t just read them and call it a day. It’s like having a recipe but never bothering to cook the meal. The true magic unfolds when you put these ideas into action in your everyday moments.

So, go on, soak up the wisdom, and more importantly, bring it to life in your daily love adventures. That’s where the true power lies.

Loads of love,

Irina